We don’t find ourselves on either one side or the other of the love or hate for Valentine’s Day. We’ve got a soft spot for 80s hair metal ballads, and get serious nostalgia when our teenage breakup anthems start playing. So: this month’s mixtape is a mixed bag of butterflies, confessions, young love, heartbreak, jealousy, and whatever other feelings you can attach to this very strange made-up tradition that turns everything pink for a whole month, brought to you by women of punk and indie rock.